For those of you with AADD (Adult Attention Deficit Disorder) IÂ’'ll make it short and sweet:

Sexy; always ready to give and receive. Very creative, adventurous, ambitious, and passionate. May appear to have a cold exterior, but I'Â’m warm on the inside. Not afraid to take chances. Will not settle for anything average in life. Love to laugh.

For all others who'd like a little more to digest:

I am a 5'1, average/full figured female, intelligent, well read, educated, financially and emotionally secure....self-assured, self-reliant and alas....self indulgent. Some of my better qualities are that I am a versatile thinker; analytical; reflective; non judgmental; creative and I have a very active imagination. IÂ’m a good communicator, able to communicate on several levels (I know a little bit about a lot of things....at least enough to make me dangerous) and able to keep up my end of the conversation. I am quick witted with a wicked sense of humor and am a master in the use of double-entendres. My taste is eclectic and runs from the mundane to the extreme, in other words....I'm down for whatever. My passions are reading; smooth jazz and R&B; Theater, Museums; quiet time alone or with an intimate partner; candlelight, wine and sexy lingerie (yours or mine); to stand out just enough to be noticed, yet remain a mystery long enough to be interesting; meeting someone who can go from "zero to sixty" at a whisper and making our fantasies come true.

My Ideal Person: I harbor a desire to meet a man who possesses a romantic and adventurous soul, intellect, passion, sensuality and an interest in slow soulful kisses, erotic touches and sex. I am interested in an intelligent mind....not brainy, just someone capable of sharing thoughts, opinions, other interests and has a broad range of experience from which to draw, shall we say, reference material. Good conversation/communication can be such a turn on as well. I prefer someone who is spontaneous; self assured, neither intimidated by nor afraid of a thinking woman, able to see and appreciate what she may offer/bring to an encounter; can provide soulful looks, toe curling kisses and able to scratch that itch I can never reach. Though my eyes may wander to/linger on men who are taller with slim to average build, intellectual acumen and personality plus will take precedence over physical attributes. I am open to various age groups and interracial dating, as long as the mind is mature and the interest is genuine. My present interest encompasses the here and now, I have no illusions of nor a desire for a long term/commited relationship. Therefore, I am not in search of a relationship first and foremost but rather a "mutual understanding". Should something more develop, then all the better for the both of us. I'm sorry but I have no interest in communications with men who are married or attached so please, do not respond as it would be a waste of time, both yours and mine.

*********************UPDATE************************

I've decided to reassess and focus on what my goal is here on the site. My time, like yours, is precious ....and I have precious little time to waste on responding to emails that have no substance or generate no interest. If you receive no response in a reasonable period of time (approximately 1 week), then you may assume that your email fell into one of these categories. I realize this sounds egotistical, high handed and bitchy, but...if you don't put forth any real effort to gain someones interest, then why waste your time...or mine?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
....he begins to undress me, unwrap me layer by layer, taking
his time to ravage me with his mouth and hands. His mouth
is heat. Hot, scorching, wet....heat. It engulfs me, teases
me….excites me, surrounding and lapping me to exquisite,
pulsating pleasure. Pleasure so intense it borders on
pain, his tongue burns, inflames, ignites.....and I am
on fire. His mouth following, trailing the path of his hands
as they remove piece after piece, continues its merciless
assault on my now over sensitive body. He is attuned to my
every need and desire and he seeks out my vulnerability,
my weakness, and he finds my sweet spot. Stroke for stroke,
kiss for kiss we dance the dance of lovers. Entwined, inseparable....uninhibited,
we move to the beat, to the rhythm of the dance of lust, love
and sexual seduction. I feel his lips and tongue tease my
extended nub of pleasure and taste the juices that flow
from his touch....hot, wet and sweet. As his hands grip
my thighs and spread me wide, his mouth and tongue lave my
sugar walls and his fingers delve within my depths, probing,
stroking....pushing in and out. His mouth is alternately
gentle and demanding, his fingers magically stirring....all
working in harmony, deliciously coaxing from me those
telltale sounds and signs that precede the inevitable,
the plunge over the edge of the precipice preceding a downward
spiral into total, indescribable, blissful oblivion.
My hands, of their own accord wrap themselves around his
head, holding him in place, pulling him closer than close…..my
pelvis rocks forward to meet each wicked thrust of his tongue,
nip of his teeth and every plunge of his fingers until....I
am no longer able to endure the sensations that assail me.
My world swirls, sways, is rocked and spins out of control.
My eyes lose focus and close....my mouth opens and the sound
of my orgasm is wrenched from me, from the depths of my breast,
my throat, unashamedly vocalized in a high pitched keening
wail of unrestrained release....

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